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mishalak ([personal profile] mishalak) wrote2006-04-07 07:17 pm

Life's a Show and We All Play Our Parts

I've made up my mind that I won't be going to town this weekend. I don't feel like going, I don't feel like prodding the Merry Gang into showing up, and I'm going to spend the weekend in bed with a John M. Ford story collection. I don't know about the whole gay geeks thing. As usual with my plan I haven't got it thought out. I suppose I wanted to make some friends, foolish me to think that I could get any of them to show up or even to say when they could show up. Fuck it.

[identity profile] trevorfrost.livejournal.com 2006-04-08 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Let me give you an example, I am part of a Furry Group here in Minnesota, it was originally just a group of friends that got together and it blossmed into a bi weekly thing that has at times over 30-40 people coming to them.

You don't really need a leader per say for a small group. But this whole gay geek thing is your idea right? So even if you don't want to be leader people will see you as responsible for it even if you don't want to be.

Personally I don't see you as self important. You just want your plans to go your way. But keep in mind that in order to do so you have to be persistant, tenacious, and willing to deal with the fact that people are flakey...